Getting It On...

Now that you know the idea and the parts, it is time to begin. It is important to note from the beginning that all women are different and noticing their feedback (moaning, motions, etc.) will help guide your actions. That said, here is a basic and general guide to the process.

The Foreplay and Teasing...

This is absolutely necessary, so don't skimp. That out of the way, foreplay is the difference between a great time and an ok time. In this part of the process you will tease her, build anticipation, and increase her sensitivity. Do NOT start by touching her vagina. Gently kiss and stroke down her body, including her bush and inner thighs. Let your fingers do some wandering before your lips get there. Gently caress the area around the vagina, tracing the lips and folds as you are working your way down her body. Using more than one stimulus is always better than just jumping in. Get dangerously close to her vagina with your licking and kissing, but then move away again. Keep up this teasing. Once you can tell she is getting more excited (by how wet she is or if she starts trying to hump your face), you can gently touch or kiss her outer lips along her slit. Do not part them yet. Breathe deep hot air onto her slit. (Note: Do NOT "blow" into her vagina, like you would blow out a candle or blow up a balloon. This can cause severe damage to her waterworks)

Going in Deeper...

Once she is very excited and is humping and begging for more you can go in further. Do NOT pay attention to her clit yet. Part her outer lips with your tongue and run your tongue up and down the layers of her pussy flesh. Begin ******* her with your tongue, moving it in and out of her canal. Continue with these actions until she is nearly crazy with lust. She will most likely be trying to pull your head up to her clit.

Finishing The Deed and Achieving Orgasm...

It's time to move in for the finish, and by now you'll have her shuddering in no time. Make sure your mouth, lips and tongue are very very wet. This will increase pleasure because the clit is very sensitive even to the softest of touches. Work your way licking up her slit until you can find her clit. It may be barely noticable depending on it's size, but licking in that area will make it rise or swell. When you hit it she will writhe with pleasure. Gently pull her lips apart and flick her clit with your tongue. Be sure to notice what kind of response you get. There are 2 main ways to lick the clit, flat tongue (Think Ice cream cone) and pointed tongue (sticking your tongue out at someone) every woman is different, and most have a major preference for one of these methods. Suck on her clit lightly. Observe her reaction and adjust vigor/strength of suction accordingly. Some women hate to have their clits sucked, and it can ruin the whole orgasm she was close to. Use the inside of your bottom lip on her clitoris. This is even softer than your tongue. Optionally, most women like to be finger-****** during this process. Insert two fingers into her, slowly at first, then rythmically move them in and out of her. This increases her pleasure, giving her more stimulation than is possible with normal sex. Continue and change up these actions accordingly based on her reactions to them. Once she nears orgasm she may push her pelvis up towards your face, go with her movements rather than fighting them. When she's really going crazy don't let up on her clit. Most women complain that their significant other stops too soon. Women can have multiple orgasms from this procedure too, so watch out for that as an extremely good indicator of your skill level.


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