I jerked off since 11 and shortly after was already putting stuff up my butt like my fingers, toothbrushes, small smooth bottles, whatever was around and no lube then, but now In my 20s plenty of lube and my favourite toy I have is a bullet vibrator that hits my spot perfectly, but a few months ago, I borrowed my sis vibrator that was more than double in size and had the most intense orgasm ever both in my g spot and my cock while cumming, and since then i bought an even bigger one myself and love riding it,

Lube your hand and insert finger gently on ass, afer you touch a thing like a ball, it is the prostate, now massage with your finger that while masturbate, when you cum, you feels like you are in paradise