Make sure you are nice and relaxed and use heaps of coconut oil as lubricat.Have s play at home snd don't be afraid to explore yourself as the better you prepare by yourself the better you know yourself which will give you confidence when it does happen.Pay to hopefully not have a huge cock with a big head as it will really gouge you.When having foreplay you can have a feel or a such and see if it's of a size you would handle and go to town.Lube up heaps.

Depends, you have to stay lubricated cause dry friction could be causing you the bleeding/pain. It hurt my first time. It stung and felt painful umuntil I iced it ,it was years ago but I still remember the pain. I read that it's different for every women. Pain tolerance and also how much your hiamen tears

Go slow it will hurt a little but you will get through that and it will be great, if he has a really big cock you might have some trouble but most guys are not