You can get Toys and play together... let him use a vibe or dildo on you... Is it wrong... well... I am the wrong person to ask... i have done it many times also.... you have to have your sexual desires satisfied. if he isn't able to fulfill, but everything else in the relationship is good, then find a way for you to both be satisfied sexually... maybe he would be into a Bull fucking you?

I Think its okay and you should do that and let other guys and girls tell you what theyll do to u and let em jerk off to you, Id love to see you

I have problems getting hard but encourage my partner to get off jennet she can... she even had a fuck buddy. Is talk to him if you can. Not wrong to self pleasure at any time when if all working normally! Openness is the best and then legals he can enjoy it with you as i do with my partner